My mother never understood her real potential. She could have been many different things professionally. She could have been a great teacher at any level of education, elementary, high school or college. My mother could have been an excellent journalist; she could have been a business woman. My mother could have been a doctor; my mother could have been a scientist.
However, my mother never dreamed of becoming a professional in any of those fields. Why...? Because my mother was born at time, and in a place, where people didn't dream of those kind of dreams, specially for little girls. My mother only went to grade school, and even that was limited; but in the short time that she was in school, she did extremely well in language and in math.
My mother had all the potential to excel in any of these professions that I mentioned. My mother (she's in her 70s now) has always had a great mind and an amazing memory that is still very impressive. My mother, with very little effort, memorizes important dates, details of events, many telephone numbers, etc. She remembers details and dates of events that happened over her lifetime.
My mother's dream as a young girl was to grow up, find Mr. Right, and get married; and that she did, she married my father. And my father was definitely Mr. Right for her, he was a good man, was hardworking and he was a very handsome man. I once described my father as being "extremely handsome" and of having "charisma that could choke a horse." Too bad I did not take after my father--but neither did any of my brothers. My father passed away just a couple of months ago.
Lovely, Jim! I'm sorry to hear about your Dad :(... The rhythm of your writing is almost lyrical. Are you a poet? Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Ms. Knapp! I wouldn't say that I am a poet but I know I like letters. I understand that words are powerful and that they can be used in a positive way to lift people up. I just want to learn to be a good writer. Thanks! :)
ReplyDeleteJim, your post about your mother was touching. i related to this post because it reminds me about my grandparents. neither of them completed high school, yet were highly intelligent people. for instance, my grandfather should have died in the army but because of his tremendous ability to calculate numbers and type documents, he was deemed too valuable to send away. the area in which he was supposed to be stationed was whipped out overnight.
ReplyDeleteyour story reminds me that a degree is simply a piece of paper, in which true intelligence is not measured.
Hi Mariah! Wow... perhaps sometime during the course you get to write about your grandparents, that'd be interesting to read...Now while some people can learn much on their own, they are usually the exception; most of us need to come to shool to learn where we can be taught by wonderful instructors like Ms. K, and others. Thanks for your comment!!! :)
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